• northernlights@lemmy.today
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    3 days ago

    There are things I really wanted to do but couldn’t due to a crippling fear of heights. Rock climbing, parachuting, high diving all look so fun. But I find myself crawling back, shivering in fear, trying my best to control the panic attack.

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      2 days ago

      but couldn’t due to a crippling fear of heights

      I grew up with a 50m cliff as a backyard.

      Absolutely stunning view, the kind that super-wealthy people pay many tens of millions for these days. My parents picked it up in 1977 for practically a song because nearly all the construction companies came from the prairies and had no clue of how to develop on anything other than a pancake-flat piece of land.

      But still. It installed into me a particularly overactive fear of heights. I have trouble getting onto roofs thanks to it. When putting up Christmas lights, my wife needs to hold the ladder, as I am tensed up six ways to Sunday by the time I’m at the top.

      Skiing is just as bad. I can take most any slope up to and including a double black diamond. It’s only the triples I cannot handle, because that involves vertical drops.

      So I understand that fear. Just not the desire to bodily leap out of a perfectly functional aircraft. That’s nuts.

    • Ach@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      Dude that’s a good thing. I’m probably going to die from my lack of fear of heights someday. You’re the normal one, not me.