Maybe I’m just too picky, but if the actor isn’t “my type” or I’m not attracted to him, I won’t enjoy the video. I have favorite actors (Jmac, Tommy Pistol, Ken Matsumoto, Charles Dera, Tyler Nixon, etc.), and a lot of the time I specifically look for videos with them instead of something new or random.
I’m curious what it’s like for you.
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I hate how much sense this makes.
I’m stuck though. If you’re following and paying specific people, doesn’t that cross some fidelity boundary?
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TIL monogamish = when youre not monogamous at all? You could just say poly instead lol
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I love Dan Savage. Savage Nation is an awesome column.
My favorite Dan Savage story is that time he offended a horse lover.
Huh.
So you’re occasional unicorn wranglers, basically?
Hadn’t heard of monogamish.
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Kind of a long shot, but you have ever picked up a unicorn, at the Unicorn?
Been a while since I’ve been in Seattle, hah.
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Personally, I would call this “mono-romantic & poly-sexual” to avoid any ambiguity. “Monogamish” is right up there with “heteroflexible” - useful in a pinch, but requires a conversation to clarify.
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I’m polyamorous and none us three would do that. It’s still a closed relationship - one night stands break that.
Y’all are definitely polysexual. It’s just a semi-open type rather than fully open like swingers.
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Fair enough, but to me that sounds like saying “i’m a vegan except when i eat meat” 😅
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Call me old fashioned but to me these kinds of details feel way too personal to use as outwardly defining properties of a relationship.
Like your arrangement, i’m pretty sure i would not communicate any of this to any person i don’t want to hook up with.
What the fuck kind of business is it of anyone else? Why is it relevant to anyone who and how i am fucking?
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