I clarify my question, it’s important:

I mean cosplays, that is, cosplays of characters from games, movies, cartoons, anime, etc.

I wonder what it’s like to sleep with a huge number of such girls, paying them money, of course. Not only with one or once, but with many, many times in different costumes and role-playing games.

    • deadymouse@lemmy.worldOP
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      2 days ago

      That’s not the point, I just became interested in this topic out of curiosity.

      I myself was ashamed to make this post that I could not even properly design it.

      • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
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        2 days ago

        I’m not kink shaming cosplay or anything like that. It’s actually a legitimate question. And I can’t quite put my finger on it, but there’s something very creepy about the phrasing of your explanation of the question. It just feels very “women exist only to be had by men.”

        • deadymouse@lemmy.worldOP
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          2 days ago

          I was referring to something like prostitution, where people try women or men as a commodity for money, with role-playing and cosplay.

  • Droechai@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    2 days ago

    Its horrible to sleep in latex and rubber outfits in general, and the kit is rarely built to withstand physical activities.

    If you want to live out that kind of fantasies, join a kink scene (after youve mulled over why you focus on prostitution as part of your fantasy, thats kind of off putting)

  • CerebralHawks@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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    2 days ago

    You’re asking two different questions here, and I can only answer the less fun one. I’ve only had one partner, but my wife is a cosplayer, so I can speak to that. The other, much less so. So let me start there.

    I’ve been to a few conventions (more than a few, actually). There are basically two sides to a con (or at least the kind you want — and I’ve been to those, but never taken part in that aspect. There’s the public side, where you meet other cosplayers, guests, get autographs, buy art/merch, and attend panels. Then there’s the private side, the side you want. Generally I think the rave is the gateway to that, but it’s not the only one. I assume, like at any rave, you can get drugs. Thing is, I got into anime in my late 30s. I go to bed before the rave even starts. Boring, I know, but I have fun. But I hear things. People meet up, I suspect either through the rave, or through third-party methods like OkCupid, Grindr, and the other dating apps. They probably have areas for the convention and they probably have categories for cosplayers. So, good luck with that.

    As for being with a cosplayer… that, I can speak to. I actually cosplay as well, and we’ve brought family members along as well. Most of us cosplay. And as soon as we get back to the hotel room, the costume starts coming off. If family is around, you go in the bathroom if you need to remove outer clothing. Or you turn your backs to each other. But here’s the thing. Cosplay is either expensive, or you made it and it’s fragile and you don’t want it getting damaged. There’s a reason “cosplay medics” are out in force helping people spot check and fix their cosplay at the con. The real heroes of the con.

    So your fantasy of banging an anime/game character in full costume? Depends what the costume is. For example, Sailor Moon cosplayers are just wearing an outfit, wig, and makeup. And I think they have wands? So they might be willing to throw down in costume, as long as you wrap it up (because they don’t want a mess on their outfit, they aren’t going to wash it until they get home and might want to wear it the next day) (and you should wrap it up anyway). But if it’s a handmade thing? Likely not. She’s cosplaying Kaneki from Tokyo Ghoul and has foam kagune (the four tentacles coming out the lower back)? Yeah, the kagune are not staying on during sex. Ditto anything like wings, a tail, or any other accessory they made. (Kaneki is a guy, but a lot of girls cosplay male characters. That’s huge in the My Hero Academia fandom, but others as well. You wanna bang Deku or Bakugo but you’re a straight guy? Plenty of gals cosplay those guys.)

    Just remember, cosplay is fantasy, it’s meant to be fun. But also remember, cosplay is not consent. One of the first rules of conventions. Someone in cosplay doesn’t owe you a thing, much less so if they’re eating or talking in a group. You can ask for a photo, that’s a good in to ask them about their costume and the series. If they aren’t looking away from you or looking around and they seem interested, ask them if they wanna grab lunch or coffee or something. It might go somewhere. Also, the socials around conventions have people looking for groups. People going alone and looking for anime friends because their friends back home all don’t like anime, but they still wanna be social. A few of them also wanna get laid, but they’re not gonna say that. I’m fortunate to be long since out of the dating game. I could not keep up. But I see the fringes of it online. Lots of people, guys and girls, looking to meet strangers at the convention.