What’s your protocol regarding ‘expensive’ gifts (anything over $200). If the gift receiver no longer wants or needs it, does it go back to the giver, or can the receiver sell it or give it to someone else?

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    2 days ago

    Give back, rude

    Sell, gauche (with some exceptions for real estate and timed items like concert tickets)

    Give to someone else, depends:

    Is it a family heirloom? Must be given within the family.

    Was it handmade? Must be given to someone else with a connection to the maker.

    Is it something that if taken care of can last for generations? Must be given to someone who will be a good steward of it.

    For most other things, regifting is fine, including entering it into a mutual aid resource pool.


    One more note: If the gift is replaced by a nicer or updated gift from the same or related source (eg. your parents get you a new laptop, replacing one they gave you five years ago) then the older one is free for you to do as you like with.