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    3 days ago

    The Mac one could be a lot more realistic:

    “Mac OS Yellowstone is available for your Mac, and will update tonight.”

    “Mac OS did not update last night because you left some windows open.”

    “Mac OS will update tonight, but you must enter your fingerprint and password to make it happen.”

    “Mac OS did not update last night because you didn’t enter your password again at 2AM and we weren’t sure if you really meant it”









  • well… therapy absolutely helps you figure out your needs as an autistic person (complete with a real diagnosis) and helps you develop safe coping strategies for this and being queer in a hostile place.

    A good should help you build a real support system and protect your self-identity from harmful family, including forming a plan to leave them. And learning to love yourself, awkward as you may think you are.

    I guess I see a lot of things in your post that a therapist could and should help with. I’m wondering if you had good ones, and what they were doing with you in that time.

    Just as you wouldn’t go to a surgeon or dentist and let them work without a treatment plan, you should agree on your goals and the modalities a therapist intends to use to get you there, at the beginning. And you can refer back to this to see if you’re making progress or not.

    Unfortunately like all healthcare now, you often have to research and become your own self advocate first. You should fire a therapist long before you spend thousands and years doing nothing. Bad therapists are out there, a lot of them. But good therapists can move mountains.



  • Yep my current account exists because when I got here, I said something that hurt a mod’s feelings, and so they decided to ban me across multiple communities. In the mod log, they even say “I need to cool down now” so it’s obvious it was an emotionally driven decision, but there was no reversing it.

    So I couldn’t post in LGBTQ, 196, and several others.

    Don’t hurt mod’s feelings.





  • I’ve been averse to trends like this, but I did get on Facebook and Insta this summer at the urging of some friends (I run a nonprofit so it’s useful to network). By last week I had both apps on my phone and was just numbscrolling through Insta videos. Realized my mental health had gone to absolute shit in weeks. Deleted the apps andI’m feeling myself again.

    It really is dangerous what they’ve created, if I didn’t have ambition, I would be right there zombified.