You are looking absolutely gorgeous! I’m so happy for you. Thank you so much for sharing

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I will definitely have to do that!

The same place I buy everything sadly. Amazon

https://a.co/d/034Dc4vY

Girly, you’re going to make me cry! I’m soooooo sorry to hear you had such a bad week. I think we all have those thoughts and feelings sometimes, I know I do. I’ve question myself every day about this, even when I’m girlmoding and super happy about it. I’ve come out to the people I have because I know them so well and trust them implicitly.

They are my family, blood of the coven is thicker than the water of the womb. There are still a bunch of people in that group who I’m still terrified of telling. I’ll likely never tell any of my relatives save one, who happens to be nonbinary and helped me with my makeup years ago.

In my opinion, you’ve already come out to the most important people: us, your wife, and most importantly yourself. If it takes a little more time for the rest of the world that’s okay. If you set yourself a deadline, maybe lower the requirements of that deadline.

You already went out in nature, risked being seen, that’s a huge step! Maybe start by going to a different city or part of town and going to a movie, nice and safe and dark. I dunno, that’s just my spaghetti on the wall.

Thank you for sharing! We want to be here for you! It helps all of us!

Remember, everyday is a beautiful day, as long as you decide it is, regardless of the weather

Love you

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I love it sooo much! That is so cute! Wish I still had my sundresses

Oh I’ve been in therapy my whole life, I’ve had regular monthly session with my current therapist since like 2016? I consider myself very lucky, I originally started seeing him for depression and anxiety problems but I remember him also specializing in LGBTQ+ issues.

If you need therapy just start calling people, you’d be surprised how quick you can set something up if you call everyone. Just remember to cancel any appointments you make if you find something sooner or who fits better

Was really great for the most part until last night. Went to see project hail Mary, which was amazing, highly recommend. After leaving the theater, family shit came up and made me disassociatedly depressed. Had to choke down dinner. Feeling somewhat better today, but I’m not looking forward to the coming week. Except therapy on Tuesday, that can not come soon enough.

Hope everyone else is doing well!

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Wonderful! That really helps alot!

Interesting, I never considered Duluth and buy all my work pants from them. I’ll have to take a look

Will do, thank you!!!

Thank you!!! This is exactly what I was looking for! Hopefully they keep coming out with more patterns

Congrats! Therapy is so great once you get used to it. I feel lucky that I’ve been in therapy on and off my whole life and always encouraged to talk out my feelings at home. I have an appointment next week and will be talking about this part of my life for the first time. I even sent him a link to my realization posts on Transfem.

That coat is super cute and it comes in purple?!?!?! Gotta have it! How dare you feed my shopping addiction lol. Honestly I’ve been having so much fun femme shopping.

Hope you have a wonderful day and a good session with your therapist!

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So happy for you! Having them and wearing them is one thing, going out in public is a whole nother level! Props to you girl!

Well at least you have an idea of what the problem is and hopefully it gets better. I should have my cage in the next week or so and if you are curious feel free to reach out. I’d be more than willing to share my experience. Not matter what you be you girly!

Have you considered a chastity cage? It would would keep you from having an erection and diminish the overall size of the bulge. I’m getting one to look/feel more feminine in my panties and skirts. This is what I’m getting:

https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1

I don’t like that it says sissy on it so I plan on filing that off. Don’t know how normal this is but it sounds like it might be a good option for you.

The feminine chastity lemmy group is like 90% porn but there are some post about chastity progress and advice. It’s pretty inactive but you might get lucky:

https://lemmynsfw.com/c/sissychastity

I generally only masturbate as a form of bodily maintenance, it’s a good stress reliever and helps boost your immune system. It might help you to think of it this way, disconnect the sexual nature of the act.

I hope any of this helps. I don’t like to hear you are in so much pain, and want nothing more than for you to feel good about you no matter what. Deep breaths and remember, it’s a beautiful day as long as you want it to be!

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Hi Azura! And welcome! I’m so happy you decided to join us! I’m pretty new here myself, but let me tell you everyone is amazing. They have been nothing but caring and supportive of me and it has really helped me. I’m still a big ol’ ball of worry and self doubt, but coming here everyday really sooths my soul.I look forward to walking this path with you and everyone else here, holding hands along the way!

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So happy for you! Public transit is so important and needs to be made much more accessible for all. I hope everything goes swimmingly for you on this leg of your journey! We are all here for you.

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Looking super cute! Love the kitty top!

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Amen sister, that is too true!

And yes an all transfem cheerleader team would go soooo hard!

Um, good i guess. My wife was raised catholic in a very repressed household, so she never learned how to quantify her emotions let alone express them. I came from the opposite so I have no qualms letting my emotions flow and have been working with her on how to for the last 7 years.

She has made a ton of progress but is still working on it. She’s been in therapy for a few years and I think it’s helping but it’s a struggle to learn something you were forced to ignore for 30 years.

For the most part she still loves and supports me no matter what but isn’t sure how she feels. It’s a confusing situation for the both of us. I think it’s the conflict of being okay with me as Nissa and the thought of loesing her husband, in the metaphorical sense.

That dress looks stunning on you!

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