This detail makes all the difference. At least one of you guys will have the energy, and you’ll just have to manage your lives very transparently. Rather then expecting things, say them out loud to each other, communication will make a big deal.

You’ll be fine, as long as you manage your expectations of the life you will have together clearly.

And although it might seem problematic to your son, just quote " life uuuugh finds a way" and he’ll accept you for the dinosaur you think you are. You’re both grown ups and don’t need each other’s opinions on life, but should treat each other with respect.

Someone had to. And I thank you for it, although it always makes me cry for Tasha.

Sauce? Asking for a friend

Yeah probably as always only a matter of perspective. Don’t listen to other men, just do what feels right for yourself.

I took a solid 9 months paternity leave with my son, and I think we just built the best base for a father son relationship I could ever imagine or hope to have. I know they don’t seem like it as a baby, but you are building your foundation already.

This was 3 years ago and I still feel the outcome of it every day.

Go for it , be yourself, don’t listen to others.

I really like Elon musk as an example for this. When you have won the capitalism game and can’t get more anymore, and you still look unhappy and seem totally unbalanced.