Thank you for stepping in and drawing a clear line between what someone personally feels is best for themselves, versus what they tell others (or an entire community) is best.
These are life-critical decisions and life-saving surgeries for many people.
Also poly, and if I’d been dating a previously monogamous-only person for a month, I would definitely check in with them before hooking up with someone.
I mean, this situation also wouldn’t come up to begin with, because we would have discussed boundaries and communicated expectations when we started dating. Because while the above is how I handle things, literally everyone is different.
I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault, but I think there was a definite lack of communication, on both sides. Ambiguity leads to getting hurt.
Talk talk talk, folks, tell people what you need and expect, and make sure they are on the same page (and vice versa!!). And if different pages, see if you can come to an arrangement before feelings get hurt.
Me too, she was such a nice presence here.
Clothes only accomplish what the wearer intends them to. Telling a stranger what is appropriate for them to wear in and out of the house is wild, and borderline harmful.
I really don’t think this is appropriate. I’m femme and wear nerdy tshirts all the time. You do not make that distinction, the wearer does.
Please don’t give advice that isn’t asked for.
It’s a very valid thing to ask. <3 And absolutely not weird.
Jean shorts are best shorts.
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My week was long but had good moments!
I went to the forest with a friend and walked a lot. Another day went to a local farm market and got some delicious honey. And even though I’m incredibly depressed and sad, I still managed to clean my apartment! I just listened to music and got angry and cried while I did it :D
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Love this for you ❤️❤️❤️
It’s called Metalhead, from Black Mirror (you could have also just asked, instead of this comment, would have gladly said so).
I forgot how horrifying this episode was. Part of me wants to rewatch, part of me thinks it’s too close to our current reality.
Aww congratulations! I’m glad it went well, even if it’s still complicated. ❤️
Heyy welcome ❤️
It’s such an ignorant position.
Most top surgeries (I’ve known 3 girlies just in my immediate circles) regain full sensitivity, the nerve issues are from pressure and inflammation immediately after surgery. It also massively depends on the incision type, how they’re inserted, over vs under muscle, size compared to your natural tissues. Some forms carry more risk than others.
Same with bottom surgeries. I’ve known 2. All have sensation and great orgasms. I would uh, know.
Of course there is risk, but pretty much nothing in this post is true, especially the part about it being a bad idea. That’s for people to decide for themselves.