I can’t begin the fathom what you’re going through, and I get that I’m just a random on the internet, but if you need anybody to just give you an ear, I’ll gladly give you the time.

I’ve also been on the hunt for a proper source, this was the closest official statement I found close to the subject matter, but it does not explicitly say

https://devblogs.microsoft.com/react-native/rnw-settings-win11/

I just finished P3R’s main story right before the new year and I haven’t recovered yet. I want to play the DLC but I’m too spooked

To answer the first part, when you shutdown the VM, your stuff will persist, so no you will not have to reinstalled all your stuff on the VM every time.

For the second part of your question, (to my knowledge, please correct me if I’m wrong) no Mobo has a built in GPU, some CPUs have integrated graphics and I believe you can get that to work on the VM as well. Otherwise you could use integrated on the Linux host OS and use your GPU for the VM exclusively, but your overall performance may take a hit when not using the VM