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  • In May 1888, Keller started attending the Perkins Institute for the Blind. In 1893, Keller, along with Sullivan, attended William Wade House and Finishing School. In 1894, Keller and Sullivan moved to New York to attend the Wright-Humason School for the Deaf, and to learn from Sarah Fuller at the Horace Mann School for the Deaf. In 1896, they returned to Massachusetts, and Keller entered The Cambridge School for Young Ladies before gaining admittance, in 1900, to Radcliffe College of Harvard University, where she lived in Briggs Hall, South House. Her admirer, Mark Twain, had introduced her to Standard Oil magnate Henry Huttleston Rogers, who, with his wife Abbie, paid for her education.

    Yeah, she did it all by herself lol

    Let me be clear, I’m by no means knocking Helen Keller. But dude, let it go that doing everything by yourself is somehow better, because it’s not.



  • For therapy to work for you, you have to show up for it in a big way. Therapy is work. Not only is it work, but you have to be ready to work, which often includes letting go of your ego and admitting to yourself what patterns you engage in that aren’t serving you well. While advice giving can occasionally play a small role in therapy, it is not therapy.

    Counterintuitively, many people are really, really attached to their negative patterns that perpetuate feelings of anxiety or depression. They may say they’re unhappy, but they aren’t ready to do anything different to change that.

    Maybe take a look at yourself and try to gauge your own readiness for change. If you’re not ready to acknowledge that you yourself play a huge role in how you feel, therapy will not be productive. If you’re expecting a therapist to do the work for you, therapy will not be productive. If you’re not ready to do work to break out of patterns in your life outside of therapy, therapy will not be productive.