I’m still living with parents due to circumstances (houses are immensely expensive, one of them have a lot of health issues and thus want to help out etc). Anyway, when I was a teenager my father would definitely go through my stuff in my room. He’s unfortunately very controlling.

Once I went on a trip with a school I was in back then, he would check and try to control what I do with the money I had (and used). It is that my mother messaged me and told me to better use cash instead of the bank (I listened to her). Good thing she told me because if not, there would be a huge fight (yes, actual fact because he’s agressive) due to the fact I used to smoke back then (I quit for years already thankfully). Privacy does not exist in my father’s dictonary. Though nowadays, it looks as if he does not care (but you know, appearances can be deceiving).