I am not religious and have no desire to start being now but sometimes I just want the community people get with church. I am craving connection with the community and feel it’s very healthy for families and neighbors as well. The United States is seriously lacking in third spaces and communities. It’s leading to a serious loneliness epidemic… Just wondering if there is anything that can fill that need for non-religious folks?
Men in sheds is now fairly international. It’s primarily aimed is at retired or disadvantaged men. Most are not gender limiting however. They often do a lot of community outreach stuff too.
For younger demographics, makerspaces (aka hackspaces or hackerspaces) fill a similar role. You don’t need to go in with any particular knowledge, just an attitude of making new friends.
Also, don’t be afraid to use groups as jumping off points. Often members will be involved in other activities that might suit you better.