You aren’t. They’re adults and will decline if they want.
I got a lot more confidence in myself as soon as I realized that my lack of confidence implied that everyone else were children in need of my protection, from me. Treat your adult friends like adults. They’ll be ok.
I just don’t want to pressure someone into doing something if they don’t want to though…
You aren’t. They’re adults and will decline if they want.
I got a lot more confidence in myself as soon as I realized that my lack of confidence implied that everyone else were children in need of my protection, from me. Treat your adult friends like adults. They’ll be ok.
I think for most people, it’s fear of rejection, and they lie to themselves that the reasoning is what you’re replying to.
No attempt at making friends, no fear of rejection.
Easy.
They are adults. They can walk to go if they want.