So basically yesterday I managed to meet with a few queer/trans people in my city and the next day comes and suddenly the group got quiet. No mention of making another one or anything! Me and me partner were the youngest there and maybe it’s the stigma of the relationship or just my age. I know it’s one meetup but people judge harshly and I blame myself for not being enough of a person to be interesting. I will try again but this time I won’t be pushy :3 Mood: confused
They had their golden era but died down, I basically made the momentum to unite them again and it went well, my adhd brain loves overthinking because this happened to many of my old groups in the past and I hate repeating the same cliche
Did you at least have gun when you were hanging out? I feel like I’m in the same boat. My groups always go quiet after we hang. I haven’t hung out with anybody in a almost year, like another comment said: be pushy. You might get critical feedback but at least you know what friendships you’re looking for.
My own self says yes maybe that’s just how they work, next week I may be a bit pushy and who knows
Also lmao I just reread my comment. Sorry for the confusion. Did you have fun? Not did you bring a gun to the party lol.
I sure did :3 could have been worse